{"id":4165,"date":"2023-02-01T15:31:17","date_gmt":"2023-02-01T15:31:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/?p=4165"},"modified":"2023-07-28T13:24:42","modified_gmt":"2023-07-28T12:24:42","slug":"taboo-symposium-11-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/taboo-symposium-11-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"taboo symposium 11 | relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"4165\" class=\"elementor elementor-4165\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-f388622 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f388622\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1f1821e\" data-id=\"1f1821e\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6e85829 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"6e85829\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.19.0 - 07-02-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-image{text-align:center}.elementor-widget-image a{display:inline-block}.elementor-widget-image a img[src$=\".svg\"]{width:48px}.elementor-widget-image img{vertical-align:middle;display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/taboosymposium\/events\/288709816\/\" target=\"_blank\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1139\" height=\"433\" src=\"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/BANNER_TABOO_relationships_FB.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-image-4190\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/BANNER_TABOO_relationships_FB.jpg 1139w, https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/BANNER_TABOO_relationships_FB-300x114.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/BANNER_TABOO_relationships_FB-1024x389.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/BANNER_TABOO_relationships_FB-768x292.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1139px) 100vw, 1139px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2ed19f8 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2ed19f8\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-9472e07\" data-id=\"9472e07\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8c88f0e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8c88f0e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.19.0 - 07-02-2024 *\/\n.elementor-heading-title{padding:0;margin:0;line-height:1}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title[class*=elementor-size-]>a{color:inherit;font-size:inherit;line-height:inherit}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-small{font-size:15px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-medium{font-size:19px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-large{font-size:29px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xl{font-size:39px}.elementor-widget-heading .elementor-heading-title.elementor-size-xxl{font-size:59px}<\/style><h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">the agenda<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2b3e4a0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2b3e4a0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<style>\/*! elementor - v3.19.0 - 07-02-2024 *\/\n.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-stacked .elementor-drop-cap{background-color:#69727d;color:#fff}.elementor-widget-text-editor.elementor-drop-cap-view-framed .elementor-drop-cap{color:#69727d;border:3px solid;background-color:transparent}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap{margin-top:8px}.elementor-widget-text-editor:not(.elementor-drop-cap-view-default) .elementor-drop-cap-letter{width:1em;height:1em}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap{float:left;text-align:center;line-height:1;font-size:50px}.elementor-widget-text-editor .elementor-drop-cap-letter{display:inline-block}<\/style>\t\t\t\t<p>This is not a singles evening, nor is it couples therapy. Or maybe it\u2019s a bit of both. Whatever the case, the subject is relationships, single and otherwise. I\u2019m grouping both \u2018categories\u2019 because I\u2019m pretty tired of the pervasive \u2018us-and-them\u2019 mentality of singles and couples. Any of us could at any time be on either side of this dichotomy (despite what we might think on the matter), and neither should be seen as a &#8216;solution&#8217; for the other (nor does it ever end up being so!)<br \/><br \/>Some directions the talk might go in: what do we need relationships for, anyhow? What do they provide, what kinds are there, how are the cultural and societal priorities we live in reflected in our relationships? (to wit: Did you know that couples get great tax breaks? And when was the last time you saw an ad aimed at single people that WASN\u2019T for online dating?)<br \/><br \/>There is a reason solitary confinement is a dreaded form of punishment for prisoners, but WHAT IS IT? How do the difficulties we have with ourselves change in the presence of people we love and care about? And for those of us who have just gone through two years confined in small apartments for way too long with our significant others, how has that reevaluated (if at all) our choices to be with them?<br \/><br \/>A lot of us in the group are expats, so I\u2019m going to throw the city of Berlin into the mix. This city is densely populated with a revolving door of aspiring creatives, tech entrepeneurs, europhiles looking for utopian bohemia, and other modern-day dreamers, all on their own convoluted paths, making it a city that can be hard to put stable roots down in, particularly when it comes to other people. 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data-id=\"8b71801\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-b2de6c1\" data-id=\"b2de6c1\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9d5e494 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"9d5e494\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">w.e.i.r.d** (but recommended) reading, listening, and other cultural output <\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-91d8cc7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"91d8cc7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><i><b>A Natural History of Love<\/b><\/i> <b>| Diane Ackerman | <\/b>Did you know that love was invented (in part) by books? To wit:<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c6deb48 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c6deb48\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><i>&#8220;The invention of printing aided and abetted lovers. Once people became more literate, they could take a book with them to some quiet place and read to themselves and think. Reading changed society forever. Solitary contemplation began to emerge as commonplace, and readers could discover in romantic and erotic literature what was possible, or at least imaginable. They could dare controversial thoughts and feel bolstered by allies, without telling anyone. Books had to be kept somewhere, and with the library came the idea of secluded hours, alone with one\u2019s innermost thoughts. Lovers could blend their hearts by sharing sympathetic authors; what they could not express in person they could at least point to in the pages of a book&#8221;<\/i><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d001914 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"d001914\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-0b269a8 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"0b269a8\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-2250e11\" data-id=\"2250e11\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e8c2a2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1e8c2a2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><i>The Symposium <\/i>| Plato<\/b> four jovial greeks sit around imbibing shamelessly and discussing different models of love. (and yes, Taboo Symposium gets its name from this book)<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-4d231a9\" data-id=\"4d231a9\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-831dc63 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"831dc63\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><i>The Course of Love<\/i> | Alain de Botton<\/b> &#8211; our favourite School of Lifer goes through all the different phases of a relationship, including the uncomfortable ones (cheating, boredom, having kids), and examines how the nature of love changes throughout all of &#8217;em.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-ba353ca\" data-id=\"ba353ca\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-85a5b0b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"85a5b0b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><i>The Four Loves<\/i> | C.S. Lewis: <\/b>filled with clever ruminations on love such as:<i> \u201cLove ceases to be a demon only when [s]he ceases to be a god\u201d; which of course can be re-stated in the form \u201cbegins to be a demon the moment [s]he begins to be a god.\u201d<\/i><b><br \/><\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-9e012c6\" data-id=\"9e012c6\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9667987 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9667987\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><i>The Feminisation of Sex<\/i> | Barbara Ehrenreich<\/b> &#8211; do you ever<br \/>wonder if S&amp;M is just another product of capitalist greed? Or how many of our other dainty proclivities in the bedroom came to be? Then this is the book for you. Achtung: patriarchs prepare for a licking (not the good kind.)<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-055890c elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"055890c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-23ef118 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"23ef118\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-06a2c92\" data-id=\"06a2c92\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-469bc1c elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"469bc1c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"772\" height=\"263\" src=\"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_Fayolle.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-4249\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_Fayolle.jpg 772w, https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_Fayolle-300x102.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_Fayolle-768x262.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 772px) 100vw, 772px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-88d4881 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"88d4881\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>The illustrated books of <a href=\"https:\/\/cargocollective.com\/marionfayolle\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Marion Fayolle<\/a> <br \/><\/b>(Particularly: <i>Les Amours Suspendues<\/i> and <i>Les Coquins<\/i>, both graphic novels.) Fayolle&#8217;s illustrations are magical little allegories on the nature of all sorts of relationships.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-4146408\" data-id=\"4146408\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c0521f elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"6c0521f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"339\" height=\"263\" src=\"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_whoresOfYore.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-4255\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_whoresOfYore.jpg 339w, https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_whoresOfYore-300x233.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 339px) 100vw, 339px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c5045fb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c5045fb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thewhoresofyore.com\/about.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" class=\"broken_link\">The Whores of Yore <\/a>(website)<\/b><br \/>the Ultimate archive on sex through the ages. Vintage erotica? Sex workers rights?\u00a0 Word of the day? What do you MEAN, you don\u2019t know what a Whistle in the Dark is?! Find it all here!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-6024b18\" data-id=\"6024b18\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d9b45d7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"d9b45d7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"339\" height=\"263\" src=\"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_whereShouldWeBegin.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-4254\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_whereShouldWeBegin.jpg 339w, https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_whereShouldWeBegin-300x233.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 339px) 100vw, 339px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-baef4b7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"baef4b7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>Where should we begin: a game of stories<\/b> | Esther Perel<\/p><p>Esther Perel is the therapist who developed the podcast &#8216;where do we begin&#8217;. <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/de\/podcast\/where-should-we-begin-with-esther-perel\/id1237931798\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">You should list<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/de\/podcast\/where-should-we-begin-with-esther-perel\/id1237931798\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">en to it<\/a>. Then, if you are in a rocky relationship, or perhaps even if you are not, you should play this game.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-25 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-23c7a3c\" data-id=\"23c7a3c\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-78fd6a5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"78fd6a5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/2023\/01\/09\/1147947991\/life-kit-whats-your-attachment-style\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" class=\"broken_link\">What&#8217;s your attachment style<\/a> |<\/b><b> NPR&#8217;s Life Kit (podcast)<br \/><\/b><\/p><p>If you tend to be anxious when it comes to your relationships (cough cough), this podcast will otherwise come to be known as nineteen minutes of pure personal redemption. \ud83d\ude09<\/p><div>\u00a0<\/div><div>\u00a0<\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-26984a9 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"26984a9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-1392194 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1392194\" 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elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-0224cba\" data-id=\"0224cba\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e81029a elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"e81029a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"182\" height=\"292\" src=\"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_Dataclysm.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-4248\" alt=\"\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-ecf8eaa\" data-id=\"ecf8eaa\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6b1ebfa elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"6b1ebfa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"182\" height=\"292\" src=\"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_Lola.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-4250\" alt=\"\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-a876260\" data-id=\"a876260\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-21f2e22 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"21f2e22\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"182\" height=\"292\" src=\"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_nerve.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-4251\" alt=\"\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-541c6d7\" data-id=\"541c6d7\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8eacca8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"8eacca8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"182\" height=\"267\" src=\"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_single.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-4308\" alt=\"\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-9a300e5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"9a300e5\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-20d3983\" data-id=\"20d3983\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-60de157 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"60de157\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><i>Bonk<\/i> | Mary Roach<\/b> including such scintillating chapters as &#8220;The Sausage, the Porcupine, and the Agreeable Mrs. G&#8221;, &#8220;The Taiwanese Fix and the Penile Pricking Ring&#8221; and more!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-5802d3e\" data-id=\"5802d3e\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f859024 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f859024\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><i>Dataclysm<\/i> | Christian Rudder<\/b> Do you ever wonder if you are being manipulated by the algorithms on your online search for the person of your dreams? The founder of OK Stupid lays it all out from behind the digital curtain.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-5730203\" data-id=\"5730203\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-62bc471 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"62bc471\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><i><b>They Call Me Naughty Lola <\/b><\/i>| &#8220;<i>I&#8217;ll see you at the LRB singles night. I&#8217;ll be the one breathing heavily and stroking my thighs by the &#8216;art&#8217; books. Asthmatic, varicosed F (93) seeks M to 30 with enough puff in him to push me uphill to the post office. This is not a euphemism. Box. no. 4632&#8243;<\/i><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-f812750\" data-id=\"f812750\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dcdf975 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"dcdf975\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><i><b>The Nerve Guide to Sex Etiquette <\/b><\/i>| &#8220;<i>If a pickup line turns into a conversation, gentlemen and ladies are earnestly advised not to limit their conversation to remarks on the weather and the heat in the room \u2014 this shows a poverty of ideas that is truly piteable&#8230;&#8221;<\/i><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-53dcc7c\" data-id=\"53dcc7c\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cf99d11 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"cf99d11\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><i>It\u2019s Not You: 27 (wrong) Reasons You\u2019re Single<\/i> | Sara Eckel<\/b> &#8211; \u201c<i>&#8230;.If you feel sad sometimes, it\u2019s not because you\u2019re single\u2014it\u2019s because you\u2019re alive.&#8221; <\/i><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b45b12a elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"b45b12a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-6dd4497 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6dd4497\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-2273e43\" data-id=\"2273e43\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-838a01d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"838a01d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b><i>Der Ursprung der Liebe <\/i>| Liv Str\u00f6mquist<\/b><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e41a65d elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"e41a65d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1094\" src=\"https:\/\/www.steflenk.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/TABOO_Stromquist_Ursprung-768x1094.jpg\" class=\"attachment-medium_large size-medium_large wp-image-4253\" alt=\"\" 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elementor-element-c0a4140 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c0a4140\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4959b75 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4959b75\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-81299e4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"81299e4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>** W.E.I.R.D = White, Educated, Industrialised, Rich, 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Or maybe it\u2019s a bit of both. Whatever the case, the subject is relationships, single and otherwise. I\u2019m grouping both \u2018categories\u2019 because I\u2019m pretty tired of the pervasive \u2018us-and-them\u2019 mentality of singles and couples. 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